Yay Genderlabel! (and T$'s the best)

[asterroc]

Yoinked from sammka, I am labelling myself as...

Hello My gender identity is

ally, bicurious, feminine, feminist, gay-friendly, gender neutral, heterosexual, human, monogamist, other, outgoing, starfucker, XX

What's yours?

To paraphrase sammka, I don't know what a "starfucker" is, but it sounds awesome! *does a google* Hm, I think "star" is intended to be of the Hollywood type, but I like to think astro. The "other" is for geek.

I was a little uncomfortable admitting the "bi-curious" there, as I never really have, but... *shrug* I mostly identify as hetero, I do think of myself as mono, and (most strongly of all, sorry ladies) as T$-taken. ^_^ To paraphrase the Mercedes Lackey character Vanyel, "it just happens that the only person I'll ever love was born into a man's body."

Physical/sexual attraction is not the most important characteristic to me for a mate - I mean, the person can't be repulsive, but beyond that I find intellectual stimulation sexy, and emotional support will close the deal - so since it's a lower priority it feels to me like the person's body type and/or sex/gender are not the most important characteristics in a person. It's always seemed to me like it just happened that all the people I've been attracted to in all three ways have been men. Maybe there's something to a male personality that makes them more attractive to me for the most part? I dunno. And being a supporter of gay rights as I am, I wonder what makes me straight vs. gay. I guess I mean it kinda like I'm curious about what tattoo I'd want if I ever got one, but I'm way to pain-phobic to ever do it, so it's academic. Hence I identify as bi-curious, but I doubt I'll ever find out, and I'm glad of that because it'll be beacuse I'm still with T$. *gushes* Yay, T$!

But yeah, you'll note I didn't friendslock this one despite having T$'s name in it. He doesn't like me to blog about him, he occasionally reads it, so I compromised: I told him I wouldn't stop blogging about him, but I'd friendslock it so he wouldn't see. (I'm not sure if it was that he didn't want to see what I had to say about him, or if he didn't want random intarweb folks to see.) Hi T$, I didn't friendslock this one, though I'm not sure if you'll read past the cut. Reason why is it didn't seem fair to mention this stuff where my friends could read it but you couldn't.

Comments

[sammka.livejournal.com]

I SO want to link to a post in a friend's journal, but it's friends-locked. Basically, the poster said something about starfucking, and someone commented:

Oh, but you know you want a big, pulsing red giant to let its plasma slip inside your black hole, until it can't hold together any more and it starts to dissipate...

Let me slide down the main sequence, let my yellow G2 love go red supergiant, until the heat is gone and we end up relaxing together, a brown dwarf and a neutron star, in 3-degree-kelvin blackbody radio-spectrum afterglow...

(Sorry. I once wanted to be an astrophysicist.)

That's copyright the person who will remain nameless, so um... don't re-post, I guess. But I thought it was too amusing not to at least mention.

[zandperl.livejournal.com]

OMG! That is just awesome. Please tell the nameless person that I think it's really great. :) Astrogeeks rock. I really want a vanity plate that says something like "ASTROGEEK", but this state only allows 6 digits. Six frickin' digits?! How can you get anything worthwhile in that little?

[sammka.livejournal.com]

:) ok! I told him in the original thread.