Yay Genderlabel! (and T$'s the best)

[asterroc]

Yoinked from sammka, I am labelling myself as...

Hello My gender identity is

ally, bicurious, feminine, feminist, gay-friendly, gender neutral, heterosexual, human, monogamist, other, outgoing, starfucker, XX

What's yours?

To paraphrase sammka, I don't know what a "starfucker" is, but it sounds awesome! *does a google* Hm, I think "star" is intended to be of the Hollywood type, but I like to think astro. The "other" is for geek.

I was a little uncomfortable admitting the "bi-curious" there, as I never really have, but... *shrug* I mostly identify as hetero, I do think of myself as mono, and (most strongly of all, sorry ladies) as T$-taken. ^_^ To paraphrase the Mercedes Lackey character Vanyel, "it just happens that the only person I'll ever love was born into a man's body."

Physical/sexual attraction is not the most important characteristic to me for a mate - I mean, the person can't be repulsive, but beyond that I find intellectual stimulation sexy, and emotional support will close the deal - so since it's a lower priority it feels to me like the person's body type and/or sex/gender are not the most important characteristics in a person. It's always seemed to me like it just happened that all the people I've been attracted to in all three ways have been men. Maybe there's something to a male personality that makes them more attractive to me for the most part? I dunno. And being a supporter of gay rights as I am, I wonder what makes me straight vs. gay. I guess I mean it kinda like I'm curious about what tattoo I'd want if I ever got one, but I'm way to pain-phobic to ever do it, so it's academic. Hence I identify as bi-curious, but I doubt I'll ever find out, and I'm glad of that because it'll be beacuse I'm still with T$. *gushes* Yay, T$!

But yeah, you'll note I didn't friendslock this one despite having T$'s name in it. He doesn't like me to blog about him, he occasionally reads it, so I compromised: I told him I wouldn't stop blogging about him, but I'd friendslock it so he wouldn't see. (I'm not sure if it was that he didn't want to see what I had to say about him, or if he didn't want random intarweb folks to see.) Hi T$, I didn't friendslock this one, though I'm not sure if you'll read past the cut. Reason why is it didn't seem fair to mention this stuff where my friends could read it but you couldn't.

Comments

[sammka.livejournal.com]

:) ok! I told him in the original thread.