I would like to think that most people mean well most of the time. Assuming so makes me happier, and means that I do not need to react defensively when I think someone is attacking me but instead need to reinterpret their words as meaning well but being poorly worded. I know that at times I am wrong, but I would rather be wrong than assume ill of people all the time.
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Date: 2009-01-25 08:21 pm (UTC)I couldn't put that into 5 words or less though.
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Date: 2009-01-25 08:26 pm (UTC)